The Lady and the Police Chase

The Lady and the Police Chase

It was a very hot summer afternoon in 1972. I was heading for home on a quiet country road in south Jersey. I was tired and hungry after working all day. My 4 year old daughter was sitting in the back seat quietly reading a book. When I saw that there was a police road block ahead, I pulled into a driveway and turned around, intending to take an alternate way home. I did not want to be delayed. Suddenly my rear view mirror was filled with a rainbow of red and blue flashing lights. Sirens blared.  I pulled over and was immediately surrounded by police.  They wanted to know why I was trying to avoid the road block.  I pointed to a small brown paper bag on the passenger seat.  The officers’ eyes grew wide.  I showed them the contents of the bag.  It was a container of cole slaw from the Cape May Deli.  I did not want it to spoil in the heat.  The officers seemed confused, but allowed me to go on my way.  That was many decades ago, and in family history the Cole Slaw Caper was all but forgotten… just another fun day at the Jersey Shore.

The events in Washington brought back memories of that day.  I could not help but recognize similarities… a mother with a daughter in the back seat…similar ages… a police chase.  The Washington events though were very different. Imagine a mother in a car that is under attack by a large group of armed men in high tech military gear.  Fight or flight syndrome would certainly influence the response of any mother with a child in the car.  

Many questions remain.  It appears that Miriam Carey was driving in unfamiliar territory. She was possibly lost. Maybe confused. Maybe distracted… any mother who has ever driven with a child in the back seat will understand that.  Why was it necessary to shoot and kill her?   Why was the car not stopped in a less deadly manner?   Will the Press ever ask those questions?

Why are police departments all over the country being militarized?  Is this a ploy to ‘use up’ military equipment, further enriching the MIC? Is it really necessary to send in a swat team to arrest a kid with pot?

Small town and rural police departments are being militarized all across the country.  At the same time, many citizens have increasing concerns about rumors that FEMA camps are being set up to imprison all of us. Remember the lyrics: “…Paranoia strikes deep…”.  Conspiracy theories abound.  High levels of stress and challenges to mental health are a part of every day life.  This is a perfect storm.  Citizens are buying up guns and weapons.  We now have a domestic arms race –  an arms race in our neighborhoods.  We are all less safe.  

Most police officers are honorable and professional. Some are not. Some, a few, become police officers because they are trigger-happy. The police should never shoot to kill an unarmed person. It is happening with increasing regularity.  And almost always, it is excused. No one is held responsible.  

There is now an 18 month old girl who will grow up without her mother.  Who will be prosecuted? Anyone?  In a way, we all have some responsibility here for the culture we have allowed to go on unchallenged.  

Police departments should not be military organizations.   They should be ‘safety officers’ – keepers of the peace.  Right now the United States is on a death spiral.  Do we have the political will to turn things around?  Probably not.

Rosemarie Jackowski is an advocacy journalist and peace activist. She is author of Banned in Vermont.



   

14 thoughts on “The Lady and the Police Chase

  1. Yes.  When I saw the story this morning, I said WTF!  With a one-year-old, a mother is going to go on a terrorist rampage at the Congress and White House?  Come on!  And we’ll never know, because they killed her.  Bastards.  And Bastard Country!  It’s like they do these things partly as a WARNING to all of us to STAY IN LINE.  Hope we hear from the family or friends who will say she was just a confused driver like you said.

  2. who is a young adult has a friend who was driving with her children in the car. She also had an LPR blocker on her plate, but it was the type that are legal.

    She was stopped by NH state police recently. They ordered her out of the vehicle & asked to search it (for no reason). She had a cell phone, said she was calling her husband and unless he had a search warrant it wasn’t legal & refused. He did back down.

    Although this is not as effed up as many situations, it shows how in knotted up they become with regular citizens resisting being involved in their “police state” fantasy world.

    Interestingly, police can arrest a citizen without evidence on mere “probable cause” & resisting that arrest is a crime. They csn also strip search someone in custody even for minor violations including the vague & subjuctive “probable cause” with no evidence except “suspicion” or a search warrant in many states.

  3. Then took off, running over a secret service officer in the process. She then led police on a high speed chase through a high-traffic neighborhood full of pedestrians.

    That’s a LOT different from the situation you experienced, and certainly something different from simply “stepping out of line.”

    Was the chase justified? Yes.

    Should she have been shot dead? Nope. The militarization of our police is a big problem, and pushes them to use a militarized response to infractions of all kinds.

    Why she decided to try to attack the White House is a mystery, beyond anecdotes from family and others who knew her, indicating she may have been having significant mental health issues, including fantasies that Obama was following her, which adds insult to injury. The right solution to this incident would have been prevention through proper mental health care, which is sadly unavailable to most people in the US.

    Sadly, it seems that, if she had survived, she would still not be available to raise her child, since either she would be in jail, or she would have been forcibly institutionalized – either of which would have lost her the custody of her child, at least for a while.  

  4. Lots of people around the world, including thousands of our fellow Americans, want our president dead, even more now that he’s being blamed by the tea-baggers for the shutdown.

    Wrong place to smash into a barricade, especially in a large vehicle.  I’m sure the security protocol assumes that vehicles of any sort could be loaded with explosives.  Her driving off sealed her fate, as the security personnel saw it as more reason for their assumption.

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